What do you do when you lose the PASSION?
Friday, June 12th, 2009 at 1:47pm UTC
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A. The feeling of love will change over time. It is completely normal. Once the newness of the relationship finally wear off then you are left to reevaluate what’s left. Ideally you are both left with respect, friendship, trust, and all those things that build a firm foundation for a relationship. That newness gets replaced by something not as extreme but very solid and secure.
Keep in mind that the closeness you see in the book is 1 fiction and 2 created by a lot of drama. For a long lasting relationship you want stability over drama any day.
I’m sure him smoking pot doesn’t help the whole problem though. Smoking pot tends to make people not care about what’s going on around them. It could affect his mood which in turn could affect the way he treats you.
Have a great weekend. 
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It seems to me that the pot-smoking has taken a priority in his life and now the relationship and the direction it is going not important to him anymore.
I think that you should talk to him and tell him that he has changed and that the pot-smoking (that you hate) is really putting a damper on the relationship and if things don’t change, you are going to have to call it quits.
You are unhappy with your situation and that is why you have found yourself drawn to the fictional love story in Twilight and wish for a love like that.
You have probably lost all hope in your relationship, not because of reading the book, but because of his smoking habit and how it’s changed his outlook on the relationship.
Hope things work out!